litvanilla asked: What's your dream life? The life you think of when you are laying in bed trying to sleep or, when your in the passenger seat of your car or someone elses car and you look out the window. Is it anything like your reality? How do you like your coffee? What's one thing you normally rather people figure out about yourself by being around you? Do you like being spoiled? Do you like spoiling people? You run into your ex and he tries to hug you, Do you let him? Felt like asking questions.
these are all interesting questions, I like. hahah. My dream life..would probably be being happy being married to the person I love, doing fun things, exploring, and creating beautiful things. A world with no petty stress, like stupid jobs that you hate that don’t pay enough for the time wasted at them, that you could be using to take advantage of every second of the short life you are given. I’d like to spend more time making things, to decorate my home, and to give to the people I love. A happier world, with happier, less greedy people. I’d say it’s a somewhat far stretch from reality, but I thank God for what I do have, and what he has done for me and those around me, he’s been good. I like my coffee several ways, I can go for super sweet & creamy, or I can do black. My favorite would have to be iced white chocolate mocha from coffee beanery. I always prefer iced coffee over hot. Recently my boyfriend showed me a new coffee combination from DD. Iced coffee, blueberry shot with cream & sugar..tastes just like a blueberry muffin, and super addicting. As far as people figuring things out about me, I use to want the person I dated to be able to read me, anything about me, if I am happy or sad, what I don’t like, what I do like..then I realized not long ago that’s not fair. People aren’t mind readers and different people have different abilities as to what they can perceive on people, I’ve learned if you love someone, you’ll take the time to help them understand you, and explain yourself when there is something they don’t get. As far as spoiling people, I love to. I love to spoil my boyfriend, and my friends. BUT, although I do believe that you shouldn’t do a good deed for the reward, I do believe that it should be a two way street and if you do for someone, they should try to do likewise. And as far as the ex thing goes, I’m friends with most of my ex’s, so if they wanted a hug, I probably would hug them, it would just be awkward, but it’s good to see when other people are doing well too.